Best Sex Positions to Get Pregnant Fast: What Actually Works
Written By The Mr. Fertyl Research & Education Team
When you’re trying to conceive (TTC), it’s natural to wonder if there’s a trick to getting pregnant faster – including whether certain sex positions can boost your chances. You might have heard well-meaning tips from friends or seen internet myths about “gravity-defying” positions. The truth is that while no specific sex position is a magic bullet, timing and technique do matter more than most people realize [2][3]. In this friendly, evidence-informed guide, we’ll explore the most fertility-friendly positions (and why they might help), and share other tips to align your intimacy with your fertility goals. Along the way, we’ll also discuss how factors like underwear choice, heat, and environmental toxins can affect male fertility. Let’s dive in and take the awkwardness out of the baby-making conversation!
Do Sex Positions Really Affect Conception?
First things first: can sex position actually influence how quickly you get pregnant? Fertility experts say that any intercourse that deposits sperm in the vagina can lead to pregnancy, regardless of position [2]. Sperm are remarkably fast swimmers – once ejaculated, they can reach the cervical canal within minutes [2]. Research has found sperm in the cervix within about 15 minutes after sex, even without special maneuvers [2]. This means you don’t need to perform headstands or contort into crazy angles after sex in hopes of “keeping the sperm in.” In fact, a committee of reproductive medicine experts concluded there’s no conclusive evidence that any particular coital position or post-sex posture improves the odds of conception [10].
That said, many doctors and couples alike believe there’s no harm in giving gravity a gentle nudge in your favor. Positions that allow deep penetration can deposit semen closer to the cervix (the opening to the uterus), theoretically helping sperm start their journey on the right foot [3]. So while no position is guaranteed to make you conceive faster, certain positions might provide a slight anatomical advantage. Just as importantly, focusing on intimacy and reducing stress during sex can help you maintain a consistent baby-making routine without turning the experience into a chore [4].

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Even without ironclad scientific proof, these sex positions are often recommended by fertility experts because they support optimal sperm delivery and retention. The key theme is deep penetration and comfort – ensuring that semen is deposited as close to the cervix as possible, while keeping both partners relaxed and connected. Here are some fertility-friendly positions to consider:
- Missionary (Man on Top): This classic position is frequently cited as one of the best for conception. With the woman lying on her back and partner on top, gravity isn’t fighting against you, and penetration tends to be deep. The idea is that the cervix may be positioned to “dip” into the semen pool in the vagina, giving sperm easier access into the cervical mucus [4]. While there’s no hard proof of this effect [4], it’s a simple, intimate position that many find comfortable. For roughly two-thirds of women who have a uterus that tilts forward (anteverted), lying on the back might align well anatomically [4]. (Tip: Placing a small pillow under her hips can tilt the pelvis upward, potentially helping sperm travel toward the uterus – more on this in a moment.)
- Doggy Style (Rear Entry): In this position, the woman is on hands and knees (or lies flat on her stomach) while the partner enters from behind. Rear-entry positions allow for very deep penetration, which can bring the ejaculated semen right up to the cervix [3][4]. Many couples switch to this position if they find missionary difficult or tiring, since it puts less weight on the partner on top. From a fertility standpoint, doggy style is thought to angle the penis such that sperm are ejaculated near the cervical opening, giving those “little swimmers” a great head start [2][4]. Some also find that this position (or variations of it) leads to strong stimulation and orgasms, which could be a bonus for conception – the uterine contractions from a female orgasm might help draw sperm inward (even though female climax isn’t required to get pregnant) [2].
- Legs-Elevated Variation: You can modify the basic man-on-top position for potentially even better results by elevating the woman’s legs. For example, try the “legs on shoulders” variation: the woman lies on her back with hips slightly raised (a pillow helps), and legs resting on the partner’s shoulders. This position not only allows deep penetration but also tilts the pelvis such that the cervix is in a favorable angle to receive sperm. It’s essentially a gravity-friendly tweak on missionary. Many fertility nurses suggest the pillow-under-hips trick after intercourse as well [3] – while not scientifically proven to boost odds, it can’t hurt and may encourage semen to pool near the cervix. In fact, one study in a fertility clinic setting found that women who lay flat for 15 minutes after an insemination procedure had higher pregnancy rates than those who got up right away [11]. It’s not exactly the same as natural conception, but it reinforces the idea that a little pelvic tilt and rest post-sex might be beneficial.
- Side-by-Side (Spooning or Scissors): Lying on your sides facing each other (often called the scissors position) or in a spooning position is another option. This isn’t quite as deep in penetration as missionary or doggy style, but it can still bring the penis relatively close to the cervix, especially if the woman hikes her top leg over her partner. More importantly, side-lying positions are comfortable and intimate, which can be great if performance anxiety is creeping in during scheduled “fertility sex.” Less stress and more relaxation can lead to stronger arousal and possibly even that helpful orgasm. Experts note that feeling romantic and relaxed during baby-making sex can alleviate nerves and may indirectly improve your chances by ensuring you have sex frequently during your fertile window [4]. In short, the best position is ultimately one that both partners enjoy and can sustain regularly.
What about woman-on-top or standing positions? You may have heard that positions like the woman being on top (e.g. cowgirl or reverse cowgirl) or standing sex are bad for conception because gravity causes sperm to leak out. It’s true that ejaculating with the woman on top or upright could result in a bit more semen dribbling out afterward. However, remember that sperm that have any chance of fertilizing the egg are already racing ahead. By the time you’re cuddling post-sex, millions of sperm have likely moved into the cervix if they’re going to [2]. So, you can get pregnant from woman-on-top intercourse – and plenty of people do. One study even cheekily noted you can conceive in “gravity-defying” positions like standing or sitting just fine [12]. That said, if you want to maximize every little advantage, you might save the acrobatics for later and opt for positions where gravity works with you during your peak fertile days [2]. For example, a sex therapist in one report suggested that if the female partner has a retroverted uterus (tilted backward), she might actually do well with rear-entry or woman-on-top positions that suit her anatomy better [4]. The bottom line: any position that’s comfortable and gets sperm inside is a good position, but a few classic poses give those swimmers a head start toward the egg.
Timing Is Everything: Aligning Sex with Ovulation
While we’re talking technique, let’s emphasize something even more crucial: timing. The most perfect sex position in the world won’t help if you’re not having sex when the egg is around! A healthy egg survives only about 12–24 hours after ovulation, but sperm can live in the female reproductive tract for up to five days [9]. This means your best chance is to have sperm waiting in the fallopian tubes when ovulation occurs. Doctors define a “fertile window” spanning roughly the five days before ovulation through the day of ovulation itself [2]. Research shows the two days before ovulation and ovulation day carry the highest probability of conception [2].
How do you take advantage of this? If you have regular cycles, you can track when you likely ovulate (about 14 days before your next period, in an average cycle) [9]. Using ovulation predictor kits or monitoring cervical mucus and basal body temperature can also help pinpoint your fertile days [9]. Then, aim to have sex frequently during that window. In fact, having sex daily or every other day around ovulation yields the best pregnancy rates [9]. There’s no need to “save up” sperm with long abstinence – in couples with normal fertility, regular intercourse (once a day or every 2 days) during the fertile phase is ideal [2]. This ensures a steady supply of fresh, motile sperm ready to meet the egg.
Some couples worry that too-frequent sex will reduce sperm counts, but unless the male partner has a known low sperm count, intercourse every 24–48 hours is generally fine or even beneficial [2]. (On the flip side, marathon multiple sessions per day are usually unnecessary – it may just tire you both out!) The goal is to find a sustainable rhythm that keeps the process fun. Use those fertility-friendly positions during your high-risk days, but don’t stress over switching it up every single time. Consistency and timing beat any one position’s supposed benefits. And here’s a basic yet important technique tip: make sure the male partner ejaculates fully inside the vagina during intercourse (no withdrawing early), as this obviously increases the likelihood of sperm meeting egg [3]. It might sound obvious, but in the heat of the moment, ensuring a complete ejaculation as deep as possible in the vagina is key for conception.
After Sex: Should You Do Anything Special?
After you’ve done the deed in your position of choice, is there anything you should or shouldn’t do to improve the odds? Many TTC tales suggest lying in bed with your hips elevated for some time. The evidence on this for natural conception is mixed. As noted, sperm reach the cervical canal very quickly, so you don’t have to prop your legs up against the wall or take a 30-minute “legs in the air” break. However, fertility experts say it can’t hurt to lie down for a short while and let gravity assist for a few minutes [2]. You might place a pillow under your lower back or hips and relax together for 10–15 minutes after intercourse [2]. This gentle tilt encourages semen to collect near the cervix. Even though research hasn’t proven a direct benefit, many women report feeling better doing it – and it’s a nice excuse to cuddle and not rush to clean up.
On the flip side, don’t worry if a bunch of fluid leaks out when you stand up; this is normal and doesn’t mean the important sperm didn’t get inside. Avoid douching or washing out the vagina after sex (which could flush out sperm and upset the natural pH). And contrary to some myths, you don’t need to orgasm after the man or anything like that – a female orgasm before or after the male’s ejaculation isn’t required for pregnancy (though if you do climax, those uterine contractions might give a tiny assist to sperm movement) [2]. The main post-sex advice is: take it easy and keep the sperm where they are. Lying on your back for a little while is fine, but no crazy inversions needed. By the time you hit the bathroom or get a snack, the fastest swimmers are already on their mission.
Beyond Positions: Boosting Fertility with Healthy Habits
Conceiving faster isn’t just about what happens in the bedroom – it’s also about creating a sperm-and-egg-friendly environment outside of it. Here are some often overlooked factors, especially related to male fertility, that can make a real difference:
- Keep Things Cool (Literally): Testicles are designed to hang outside the body for a reason – they need to stay a few degrees cooler than core body temperature for optimal sperm production [6]. Consistent overheating of the scrotum can harm the Sertoli cells that help produce sperm [6]. So, men should be mindful of activities that “cook” the testes. For instance, hot tubs and saunas can be detrimental if used often. In a hot tub, the testicles are submerged in hot water and have no way to cool off, potentially warming to unsafe levels for sperm development [5]. Frequent long hot baths, placing a laptop directly on your lap for hours, or even using heated car seats all the time could add up to excess heat down there. While you don’t need to avoid warmth at all costs, consider moderation: maybe skip the daily hot tub soak while you’re trying to conceive, and use a lap desk or table for that laptop. The same logic applies to tight clothing – which brings us to underwear.
- Choose Fertility-Friendly Underwear: Does it really matter? Research suggests it just might. A major study of 656 men found that those who usually wore loose-fitting boxers had 25% higher sperm concentrations and 17% higher total sperm count than men who wore tight briefs or jockeys [6]. Looser underwear allows more cooling airflow, whereas snug briefs may lead to “scrotal heating,” as scientists call it [6]. In fact, this study noted a hormonal sign that the men in tight underwear were compensating for heat: they had higher levels of follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH), suggesting the body was trying to jump-start sperm production in slightly overheated testicles [6]. Other research has echoed this trend – tight polyester fabric in particular might have negative effects on sperm. In an experiment, dogs made to wear polyester-lined underwear showed a significant drop in sperm count and motility over 24 months, whereas dogs in cotton underwear (and the control group) had no such decline [7]. (The researchers theorized that electrostatic charges from polyester could be to blame, but whatever the cause, the effect was reversible after switching back to cotton [7].) The takeaway? Breathable, natural fabrics are your testes’ friends. Choosing underwear that keeps you cool and dry may help improve sperm parameters, especially if fertility is a concern. Bamboo fabric is a modern option that checks all the right boxes for fertility-conscious men. It’s highly breathable and moisture-wicking, helping to keep the groin area cool and sweat-free. It’s also naturally soft and gentle on skin. Importantly, bamboo is an eco-friendly, non-toxic textile, meaning it’s grown and processed without harsh pesticides or chemicals. For men worried about exposure to hormone-disrupting substances (more on that next), this is a big plus. Mr. Fertyl’s bamboo underwear is a great example – it’s specially designed for health-conscious, fertility-focused men who value quality and sustainability in their clothing. By switching to options like these, you’re not only making a comfortable lifestyle upgrade, but also potentially giving your sperm a healthier environment. After all, something as simple as trading in tight, synthetic briefs for cool, bamboo boxers could be an easy win on your fertility journey.
- Beware of Toxins and Endocrine Disruptors: Our modern environment is full of chemicals, and some of them can interfere with hormones and reproductive health. These are known as endocrine-disrupting chemicals (EDCs) – they lurk in everything from certain plastics, pesticides, and personal care products to even the materials and dyes used in clothes [8]. Research has linked EDC exposure to lower sperm count, poorer sperm motility, and even changes in male hormones like testosterone [8]. For example, common pollutants such as phthalates (used in plastics and fragrances) and BPA (in some plastic containers and receipts) have been associated with decreased semen quality in men [8]. Over the past few decades, scientists have observed declines in average sperm counts alongside rising levels of these industrial chemicals, suggesting our environment plays a role in fertility [8]. What can you do? Try to reduce your exposure: opt for glass or stainless steel over plastic for food storage, choose natural or organic personal care items when possible, and wash new clothes before wearing to remove any residues from manufacturing. Choosing organic or eco-friendly fabrics, like bamboo or organic cotton, can minimize contact with certain fabric treatments or pesticides that non-organic materials might carry [8]. Again, something like Mr. Fertyl’s bamboo underwear fits here – not only does it keep you cool, but it also aligns with a lifestyle aimed at cutting down on potential toxins. While we can’t completely avoid all EDCs, being mindful of what we put in and on our bodies (and our reproductive organs!) is a smart move when trying to conceive.
- Overall Health and Habits: Finally, don’t forget the big picture. A few other male fertility boosters: Don’t smoke – smoking introduces cadmium and other toxic substances that can lower sperm count and damage DNA in sperm [2]. Limit heavy drinking and drug use, as these can alter hormone levels and sperm quality. Keep an eye on medications or anabolic steroids – testosterone supplements or steroid use can actually shut down the body’s natural sperm production [5], so always talk to a doctor about fertility-safe treatments for any condition. Manage stress and get enough sleep, since chronic stress can dampen sexual function and perhaps sperm parameters (not to mention make baby-making a lot less fun). Maintaining a healthy weight and getting moderate exercise are beneficial, too – obesity and extreme exercise (in men and women) can disrupt fertility [9]. In short, a balanced, healthy lifestyle creates the optimal conditions for conception. Think of it as tending the garden in which that seed (or rather, sperm and egg) will meet.

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When it comes to the “best” sex position to get pregnant fast, the evidence suggests there is no single magical pose – but there are practical ways to tilt the odds in your favor. Positions that allow deep penetration, such as missionary and rear-entry, might help by depositing sperm closer to the cervix [2][3]. Using a pillow to gently elevate the hips and taking a few minutes to relax together after sex can further encourage those swimmers along [2][3]. Just don’t forget that the most important factor is timing: hit that fertile window with regular intimacy, and you’ve checked the biggest box for quick conception [2][9].
Also, remember that fertility is a team effort that goes beyond the bedroom gymnastics. Little lifestyle tweaks – wearing breathable, cooler underwear, avoiding hot tubs, and steering clear of harmful chemicals – can improve sperm quality and overall reproductive health. It all contributes to creating the best possible environment for a healthy pregnancy to occur. If you’re looking for an easy place to start, something as simple as upgrading your underwear drawer can be a tangible step. (Your future kids might thank you for that pair of bamboo underwear!)
Lastly, keep the experience enjoyable. Stressing out over achieving the perfect position or scheduling sex to the minute can backfire. It’s perfectly okay (and normal) to feel anxious when you’re trying to conceive, but try to keep intimacy fun and loving. Laugh, experiment, and communicate with your partner. The goal is a baby, but the journey to get there should strengthen your bond rather than strain it. And if conception is taking longer than expected – usually defined as 12 months of trying (or 6 months if the woman is over 35) with no success – consider reaching out to a fertility specialist for guidance [9]. They can check if any medical factors are in play and help you with next steps.
In the meantime, we hope this guide has helped demystify the role of sex positions and given you useful tips to put into action. Babymaking is part science, part art, and part patience. With good timing, healthy habits, and maybe a little gravity on your side, you’ll be well on your way. Here’s to enjoyable moments in the bedroom that bring you closer to the bundle of joy you’re dreaming of!
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